This is me with the other teachers of His Mission Academy, a school I pioneered right at the heart of Davao City dump site in 2007. We were ministering to the families in the dump site when the Lord prompted … Continue reading
I don’t like wasting time. This is often the part where I have issues with Hubby before cause when he is into doing one thing at a time: hustling with work now then spending QT through watching a movie later, … Continue reading
I love to wake up early so I am ahead of my tasks. I love the feeling of having hit coffee on a cold morning when it’s still dark. I get to prepare breakfast early, pray and organize tasks for the day before family wakes up and need my attention.
But sometimes I sleep late and wake up late as well. Thus before I can do my morning routine the kids are already awake and:
“Mom, you know what…”
“Can I go do this?”
“I need help…”
The list can go on.
Lately most often, they would distract my moment to give me flowers (like everyday that we don’t have flowers in the yard anymore) or tell me an important thought.
It’s very tempting to lose it and treat these interactions casually. But I am always reminder by C.S. Lewis’ words that says, “Kids are not a distraction to important work. They are the most important work.”
As a woman, parent and mom, I was entrusted by God to be their mom. They are our gift and legacy. Our most important treasures. Thus whatever may seem so childish to me but heartfelt from them is important. I need to take each the “distractions” as crucial in building their self-esteem and personality. The more they feel that Jay and I are “all there”, the more they feel secure, supported and valued. And when kids are confident, nothing is impossible.
When kids might be distracting, take a closer look. Listen and consider. Don’t miss every opportunity to build them up!
In my previous blog; Tech Time for Kids, I shared that I was alarmed on the growing number of kids 1. It’s a #parenting issue Whether we like it or not, it boils down to how we spend time and know … Continue reading
How much tech time do you give your kids every week? We are talking about our kids’ time on the internet, may it be through computers or mobile devices. There are many concerning posts recently about parents allowing their … Continue reading
Every homeschooling family is different. For this reason each has a different motivation and reason why they are homeschool resulting to choosing a curriculum that also fits their very “why”. Below are different homeschooling styles. 1. School At Home School-At-Homers … Continue reading
And so I thought…
I am proud homeschooler and freelancer. This a spirited choice my husband Jay and I embraced for our family. And being an idealist, I had noble reasons as to why we are doing what we’re doing. We still hold to these guiding lights until now. But the more I am homeschooling and freelancing, I am understanding the real rewards of this selection.
Before, I thought the biggest rewards of #homeschooling are these alone:
- Individualized learning – Being able to focus on each child’s learning style and develop them as God wants them to be.
- Godly parenting – Being able to establish them in the way of the Bible.
- Life skills – Being able to train them to what actually matters in real life situations.
But I was wrong…
Before, I also thought the greatest rewards of #freelancing are limited to:
- Moments – Not missing any life’s milestones with our kids.
- Money – Earning big that we can provide all their needs.
- Motherhood – That I can be there for them as their mom 24/7…
But I was wrong…
The more I do homeschooling and freelancing, I am realizing that the real reward of these two is the bond we can develop as we walk in their choices daily… it’s the intimacy in our relationship! Because I can homeschool and work from home without forming that bond, without connecting, without getting our hearts knitted together…
My rewards are:
- The laughers
- The tickles
- The embrace
- The kisses
- The words of encouragements and affection
- Movie time, arcade time, videoke time…
- Doing chores together
- Talking our hearts out
- Hearing each other with so much interests
- Holding hands
- Enjoying our meals together
- Going through life together…
Yes we do strive hard that our kids do not compromise learning and that we get to enjoy the perks of online jobs but above all I am learning that God made man for relationships. That He too, more than us fulfilling our destinies and conquering the world for His kingdom, loves to just be with us…
Life is all about “being” and not so much on the “doing”.
How about you? Are you also enjoying forming that bond with your kids? Don’t miss out this reward! They will be children only for a short period of time… Cherish it while you still can.
The Life of Living Dreams Yesterday, my husband sent me this long private message in Facebook as he noticed that I am not dreaming BIG anymore. Here’s what he said: “Beb? I want you to realize something… You are a … Continue reading
Soap Opera’s Infatuations Sorry to break it to you Ladies, but married life is not the typical soap opera. It’s NOT like Dào Míng Sì’s ultimate love for Shān Cài in Meteor Garden, who always rescues her from all the tragedies … Continue reading
The world today is just so full of pride, negativity and selfishness. It’s so toxic that many get confused equating fame and riches to happiness. It can be… but I believe that real joy is grounded in a life that’s … Continue reading